My Most Important Week Yet

[Denver_2010]

After she told me how much it upset her that I didn't respond to that particular email, how that was the "final straw" in her becoming numb to us, the last sign she needed that I was done...

Well after she told me that, I told her that I though SHE was done the day she packed her sh!t and moved a few hundred miles away... And I was SURE she was done when I found out about OM

I'm still sure that she's done. At least for now.

I'm also sure she could change her mind one day.

You're focused WAY too much on this. You put her on her heels yesterday. IMO, you are making a mistake if you contact her in any way.

If you pursue in any way, or if your actions are perceived by your W as pursuit in any way... She will continue to run farther away.

Going dark will be hard, but my prediction is that she WILL reach out to at some point. THAT is what you need to have happen to begin to break the momentum.