I think the affair and leaving says more of I do not love you than "fighting"
Chatter, these words, or ones very similar to them, came out of my mouth a few times yesterday.
After she told me how much it upset her that I didn't respond to that particular email, how that was the "final straw" in her becoming numb to us, the last sign she needed that I was done...
Well after she told me that, I told her that I though SHE was done the day she packed her sh!t and moved a few hundred miles away... And I was SURE she was done when I found out about OM
I'm still sure that she's done. At least for now.
I'm also sure she could change her mind one day.
And now that I've laid out my personal boundaries, I'm sure that when that day comes, there will be something worth working on.
