SS-i like the idea of doing what we want to do rather than what we think we should do. Indeed most of the time i wasn't even sure what it was H wanted, i just assumed i was supposed to do all of these things around the house and as a wife.... crazy in retrospect..
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home