I must be OK with the real me being enough.

labug this is spot on.

SS-i like the idea of doing what we want to do rather than what we think we should do. Indeed most of the time i wasn't even sure what it was H wanted, i just assumed i was supposed to do all of these things around the house and as a wife.... crazy in retrospect..


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home