Wife lost in the MLC-We are now separated

[sam4nh]

So last night was not one of my better nights. I found out that my mom who is terminally ill has taken a turn for the worse. My W call and I was explaining that my mom was not doing well and her primary concern was (or at least it seemed to me) to get the contract signed to make her feel better.

She kept saying that she was there to support me, but it really felt like she wanted to get me to just sign and tell her what changes I was wanting to incorporate into the contract. I kept asking why she just didn't want to get a legal separation, and alls she would say is that this would be better for us both. I'm not really buying into that statement. She was upset and I'm sure this set us back in her working through her MLC.

I don't understand and I probably will never..She says she loves me and she wants to be there to support me, but she can only work on herself and wants to be on her own to find herself.