it's so hard because we are, by nature and by environmental pressures, big on nurturing. maybe we should not "mother" our H's so much and "mother" ourselves more? we could start by doing what we want to do instead of doing what we think we're "supposed" to do. it's hard for women.
we need to be more like men... ;-)
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing