La, I've learned her love languages are indeed much different than mine. If this M moves forward, I have my game plan for how to approach her LLs better and how to let her know how important MY LLs are to me.
But that's not something I can worry about just yet.
She didn't get surly that I wasn't getting it... She continued to withdraw from our R... to internalize more and more... and the vicious circle continued... the more she withdrew, the more of ME I gave her...
