But despite that knowledge, despite the "Believe none of what she says" mantra that I keep repeating... I can't help but examine those words to see if there's truth there or if it's truly just noise.
Something for you to think about, Alk, and doesn't even require an answer here, today:
Do you think your wife -- when you didn't respond to a couple of those texts or emails -- in that moment . . . believed you didn't love her? Or was she simply upset that you weren't behaving in the way that she THOUGHT you would, even while she was cheating on you?