Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts


But despite that knowledge, despite the "Believe none of what she says" mantra that I keep repeating... I can't help but examine those words to see if there's truth there or if it's truly just noise.


Something for you to think about, Alk, and doesn't even require an answer here, today:

Do you think your wife -- when you didn't respond to a couple of those texts or emails -- in that moment . . . believed you didn't love her? Or was she simply upset that you weren't behaving in the way that she THOUGHT you would, even while she was cheating on you?

The distinction is as great as night and day.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)