don't contact her. if you do, she'll know you're there waiting for her to be done with her fun, should she ever be. she'll know you're an "option", which you said you won't be. it would be contradictory to what you've told her.
be strong. it's hard but it's the best thing you can do right now, for any future R with her (should there be one) but more importantly, for YOU.
