Hey Ro, don't read too much into the MIL thing. You know I've faced similar stuff. I think they're uncomfortable with it and don't know what to say, so say nothing. Our conflict-avoidant Hs didn't spring fully formed from the womb, they learned this behavior.
If you love her, respect her, whatever, she gets a free pass on this one.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
