Lifting my eyes to the hills...

[timbits]

i felt exactly the same way when i started to tell people about h and i. i had been dealing with it for a long time, so i was past the wailing and crying stage. i still had my moments of difficulty (still do), but i had already dealt with a lot of the mourning of the loss of the relationship long before we separated.

feel what you feel and do not feel guilty about your feelings, or lack thereof.