You're very badly wanting to land some "truth darts," at a minimum, or go into even longer EXPLANATIONS to her as to why you did what you did (or didn't do). Perfectly understandable.
It's IMPERATIVE that you remain dark right now, and the GOOD news for you is that you will have many, many additional opportunities to respond to her foggy thoughts in the months ahead.
There's no need to pick up those little turds right now.
