Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

Thanks for the reply Denver. Ok so when my W came home with my youngest S she showed me a housewarming gift she bought for friends of ours I listened to the DBer in me and I did not say what was on mind (which was were where you really). I don't know what got the conversation started between my W and sons but they both said something to her about the fact that she is never home to which she replied to them that she doesn't want to be here and that she was working on saving money to move out. If we weren't in the financial situation we are in she would be gone.

So I started thinking to myself that money problems are no reason to stay together. I just know how I feel right now. I think I'm growing tired of it all. I'm now asking myself if this is really worth it. Is it time to for me to file? I think to myself that she would file but she is afraid of what others will think of her and my W is really big on how she looks to others. I also think is she ever going to be the W for me? Someone who wants to spend time together? Someone who wants to do things together? Someone who is loving and not critical most of the time?

It's been 15 months since her feelings for me have changed and I don't know where I stand right now. I could use some advice/encouragement right now. Thx