IMO, your h has a serious problem with forgiveness as he is STILL holding onto abandonment from childhood...oh Good grief, at some point we have to be adults and wipe our slates clean. HIS life would be easier if he let go of that stuff.
This is a valid point. And there is nothing we can do to change it. My H has the same forgiveness issues, and I know his life (and ultimately mine) would be easier if he forgave, which doesn't mean forget.
LA, have you been through some other issues that took him a long time to get out of? I know you asked me once about grudges, are there any other ones out there for your sitch? Can we whack them in the head?
I hope that your H follows doctors' advice with his meds. The fact that he went is a good sign, but I know that you are concerned about what he is taking.
And you are talking, even if it is not always a perfect talk, you are getting things out in the open.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
