yes i ordered DR, it should be in the mail in a few days. thanks for the advice everyone. H is on his hunting trip now, i wish he was home but i guess its better since im sick right now i missed work today.. i hope im better tomorrow. im not going to call him while he is there, he told my oldest son he is mad at me because i smother him, i never thought i did. it bothers me that now my sons are getting affected by this. but so far its calm and im just trying to step back.