She would be behaving in an entirely different manner, ie, depression, reaching out, etc. Not going on vacation with an OM.
BTW, this sounds an awful lot like she was doing the GAL'g proposed by DB to the LBS'ers.
There is NO question in my mind that the WAW is much better at DB than the LBS... it is natural for them because they are WAY detached when the f'ing walk away!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce