Thanks Lasa. I know it is comforting to know you are not the only one who is going through this ordeal. So many of us. It's unbelievable that so many marriages are in peril. Such a shame.

And yes does not see the problem with the kids meeting OW because she "is t a threat". This after we attended parenting class that specifically stated do not bring your kids around other people too soon. H said "that only applies if you are dating multiple people. I'm only dating one person". That's right...bend the rules so they don't apply to you. Whatever it takes to clear his conscience I guess.

H gets back from overseas tomorrow. Back to life in crazyland for another week. I'll try to hang on as best that I can.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"