Listen, I was not the greatest at GAL. I FORCED myself to go out and do things that were 'fun'. I did enjoy much of what I did, and I did meet some new people, but much of it was empty. To me, the GAL served two other purposes... it created some mystery about what I was doing... and it helped pass the time (in turn, helping me get through the pain).
Go to your buddies place. Try to have fun and let your problems go for a few hours. You need that to help you preserve your emotional energy.
That's my advice.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce