I sure did initiate it. I just went out one day and filed the papers, came home and said to him, guess what i filed for divorce. yep i did it and it felt great.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19