The denial is so thick. He can not see his part at all right now, that may change - let him see it for himself.
This is so hard and many of your answers are so "normal" and "regular" - we all get angry, we say things, we defend ourselves. You are not crazy, you are totally normal.
Just make like Obama at the debate and play opossum.
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