THAT is how you do this everyone!! Nicely done. Be very, very, very proud of yourself AT!!!!
This line about not fighting for her, don't give it a second thought. I got it too... and it is B.S. ... Complete and utter B.S. Another way that they make sh!t up to validate their choices. That's ALL that it is.
Now AT...
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do NOT do anything for at least 3 days. Do NOT contact her in any way. PLEASE LISTEN TO ME ON THIS. You have put her no her heals, confused her a bit, and given her something to think about...
Let it happen...
PLEASE
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce