MWG, What are you thinking in terms of moving away? It sounds like a difficult situation, to live w/your X. You have certainly had a hard time w/unemployment.

I am sorry to hear that X destroyed R w/at least one child.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D