Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

I've been busy the past few days working on the house and I actually worked today yay! OK the past few days with W have been pretty good. She seems upbeat and communication is good and I'm being very upbeat and happy myself. So I need some advice like ASAP lol. My sone son went is a freshman and went to his scholl's varsity soccer game tonight. My W is supposed to pick him and his friends up from the game and take them home. She was done work at 5 and called me to tell me she wasn't coming home that she was going to the mall and then picking our son up after the game. That means she has 5 free hrs to herself.

I don't have that gut feeling at all but I mean who goes out like this several nights a week? It's not uncommon for her to be out of the house 4-5 hours a night during the week. The house is pretty much a place for her to sleep and shower and that's it.

I need some advice right now. THe DB'er in me tells me to let it go but the leader in me which I haven"t been of the family is telling me to tell her that I'm not stupid, don't let me find out "it's" happening again. It is one of my boundaries. UGH