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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use? jzoom #2286552 10/06/12 12:48 AM
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MrBond Member M Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 12,602	I don't think you told her the "right" way. You have to learn to control your tone, but learn to tell it to her in a straightforward, matter-of-fact way to show her that it's serious. Look at her dead in the eye and tell her that it is something that's important to you and that you are dead serious about this issue. And she has a choice of either listening and trying to understand your point of view, or leaving. M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5 Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life. RECONCILED AND WISER

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What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/27/12 06:58 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Cadet	09/27/12 10:31 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/28/12 02:31 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/28/12 03:44 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/28/12 04:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/28/12 07:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:45 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:52 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:59 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:28 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/30/12 08:13 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 08:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	longrun	09/30/12 09:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 01:49 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 02:35 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 03:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	unbidden	10/01/12 03:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 04:27 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 04:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/01/12 06:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 07:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 07:11 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 07:31 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 07:32 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 10:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 11:05 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 11:25 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/02/12 02:32 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 05:55 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 07:08 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/02/12 07:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 07:57 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Cadet	10/02/12 09:22 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 09:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/02/12 11:30 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 12:50 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 01:25 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 03:18 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 03:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/03/12 06:28 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 07:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 07:49 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 09:20 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 10:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/04/12 12:23 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/04/12 01:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:20 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/04/12 06:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 02:58 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:58 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 09:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 09:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 10:23 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 10:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 10:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 10:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/06/12 12:48 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/06/12 03:13 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/07/12 03:06 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/07/12 10:50 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 12:42 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/05/12 06:06 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 06:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 07:30 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:33 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/08/12 01:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 01:24 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:22 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 08:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 09:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 09:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 09:52 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 10:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/09/12 12:26 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/09/12 01:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/09/12 04:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/09/12 04:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/09/12 06:05 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/11/12 01:28 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/11/12 01:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	someguy1233	10/11/12 02:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	LoisB	10/11/12 02:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/12/12 09:02 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/12/12 09:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/13/12 03:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/14/12 11:08 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/15/12 12:27 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/15/12 04:36 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 01:48 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 03:42 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 05:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 05:56 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 06:34 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 06:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/16/12 07:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 08:12 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 08:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 08:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 09:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 10:04 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:02 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/17/12 12:14 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:17 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/17/12 12:26 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:28 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/17/12 01:53 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/17/12 01:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 04:38 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/18/12 04:02 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/18/12 10:10 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/18/12 10:11 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/20/12 03:52 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/19/12 02:41 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/20/12 03:57 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/20/12 04:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/20/12 05:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/20/12 06:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/21/12 02:29 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/22/12 09:56 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/22/12 02:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/23/12 04:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/23/12 08:59 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/23/12 09:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/23/12 10:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/23/12 11:38 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/24/12 12:09 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/24/12 01:17 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/24/12 02:21 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/24/12 06:49 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/26/12 01:18 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/26/12 06:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Grateful	10/26/12 06:48 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/27/12 01:17 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/27/12 03:33 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/28/12 09:55 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/29/12 04:56 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/29/12 07:12 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/29/12 08:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/26/12 07:50 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/26/12 08:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/29/12 07:06 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Grateful	10/29/12 08:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/29/12 09:07 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/29/12 09:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 01:27 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/30/12 01:38 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 02:33 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/30/12 07:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 09:10 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 09:18 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 09:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	DaddyLongShanks	10/30/12 09:42 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/31/12 12:57 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/31/12 01:13 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/31/12 01:31 AM
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