I think the most important lessons i've learned or am learning is patience, selflessness and whats truly important. What was I before? I was selfish as a husband, with money, as a lover, as a friend. I worried about me first and if there was anything left then others, I had no patience for anyone not acting the way 'I' thought they should and used anger and general j@ckassery (my word LOL) To make sure that I got my way. I can tell you that as much as I pray my marriage works out, im at least glad that going through this has killed the old me and made me re-examine my life.
Gee, I thought you were talking about me for a moment. I guess there is a common reason why this is happening to us and as you said, what we're getting out of it is immense. Thanks for this uplifting post on this Saturday (Friday to you). Have a good weekend Carnac.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then