awh, thanks, bug! i wish i were smarter, sooner...
but i do think a lot of what we do to ourselves is self-imposed. and a lot of our resentments creep in from there.
i would need to re-negotiate with h for any future life together. i don't think he would have much of a problem with it since it would give me more time to do things with him, which is his LL.
i also think it's important to keep re-negotiating what we want and need.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing