People tell you to move on because they think it is good advice, they think it is what they would do.
Truth is, they don't know what they would do until they are living it.
People think moving on, means a quick heal, like pulling the band aid off quickly...
And you know what? That works for BAND-AIDS. But this is a relationship. A 17 year old marriage.
Tell people to support you and your choice and if they cannot then tell them to stop giving you advice.
People are here to help you, people you know in real life? They aren't here, they aren't familair and they don't want you to hurt, they don't want to see you hurt, so they end up giving you advice they think will help you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
