I think trying to be the best at being a wife (cooking, cleaning 'till spotless, doing all the laundry) is losing ourselves, too. Right now, H and I are separated and I have to admit, I love eating what I want (dinner two days in a row has been hummus and crackers!), cleaning less often, small laundry loads, and not making my bed!

Why can't we continue this when we live with men? Is it us...or them?

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing