Fair enough. Since I can't do counseling due to cost I have to figure out something else.

My first thought is that I keep working on detachment (it was working until I confronted her about this FB account), work on MMSLP stuff behind the scences, if I see an opening I'll bring up the R books I have so that we can do self-help counseling, and if anything else fishy comes up I'll have to take drastic action and do the After LRT and kick her out...even like DR says, I'll have to be prepared to end it for real but maybe if I truly end it and cut off all contact it'll be enough kick in the pants to turn things around.

I saw improvement this week as I started LRT and 180's, so I should get back on track with that to begin with that.


“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln