MrBond, since you are a proponent of me kicking her out, or at least making it very clear she'll get kicked out, do you think that when I told her today I am done with the jokes, games, and fake Rs that I made it clear enough?
I didn't out and out say, "do it again and you're out" but I just stated clearly that I'm done with it. In my mind, if anything else "pops up" or whatever, I'm telling her the R is over. Now, easy enough to think that now and not follow through if it happens.....yikes, I know.....I figure what I need to do in the meantime is really focus on my self-confidence and get it in my head that I have high value and she won't stray.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
