Thanks for the advice - without you I would still be sat here with doubt!.
Sandi2 you always provide excellent advice and look from a different perspective. It really does help give me that insight into what she is thinking - I really am havin trouble understanding - i am a fairly logical person but everything here breaks logic!.
I am still having trouble detaching properly but this has brought me back into reality. If ever I had doubts about the fog then this issue is helping me understand about it and her fantasy. Standing my ground on this has given me my confidence back. Your comment re getting me doubting my decision is spot on.
I also love the comment re crumb of friendship. I had never looked at it like that.
I have felt it these last few days and looking after me has slipped. But this has helped me regain focus.
and its going to get worse........im gonna be a body builder by the end looking at how much time i spend in the gym!
