That is how I feel, she wants me to trust her completely but then keeps hiding stuff. She doesn't want to validate my feelings, just blame me, so in turn I react and get more sucpicious. She says she doesn't check my stuff b/c she trusts me.
The thought has crossed my mind about counseling. We can't afford it though and so I have thought about bringing up some R books I have. Not DR but other ones that are about communication and R building. I've thought about it being my final shot, if I'm to the point where I'm going to end the R I tell her that we need to read and work through these books together. If she doesn't want to, the R is over.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
