Well it sure sounds like piecing! Wow, what a fast turnaround! Congrats! It sounds like you're being cautious and by all means you should be. Now would be a good time to define some parameters in the reconciliation such as IC, MC, boundaries (no talking to OM, etc.), perhaps a commitment to the next Retrovaille that comes to your area. It's very important not to fall back into old habits, stick to your 180s! Congrats again and please keep us posted! It gives the rest of us hope to hear success stories smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57