Tori - chances very slim of each winning. Funny thing is she didn't mention it til yesterday. I say "funny" because when I returned my call to the place, they lady had already spoken to W. That was a few days ago.
NG - I give details after the run.
AS - Tightrope indeed. A friend replaced "marathon" with an "Ironman" competition.
Denver - I havent said a word more about it to her. Thanks for checking in on my sich again. Journal / update So the past few days I have remained in BC mode with her, unless its about the kids or she initiates. One night while she was away this week, she called to talk to the kids. She mentioned she was at some cool bar with co-workers. I kept on track with her, "cool" and then passed the phone to the kids before she had asked (end convo first). Last night she and home, was nice basically. She chatted me up about my run tomorrow before we went to our separate rooms. This morning she accidentally woke me up early to get S2 ready for daycare, she then realized that her days were mixed up and he didn't need to go to daycare. She apologized verbally, told me to go back to bed. No biggie to me, I had a cup of coffee in hand. So then she advances towards me, rubs my back some, almost grabs my butt as she apologized again. Yes, that was good. Anyways, I let her know S7 was at school. She responds a couple hours later. I'm at this festival with my S2, my friends and his family. Eventually she calls to check to see what we're up to. Her voice is cheerful. Then when I tell her where we are at and stiff, she becomes very short with me, and reminds me of stuff I already know and ends the call. Really?!? I'm giving her the opportunity for space, a chance to pursue, and then she's going to seemingly get upset with me for a FAKing. Geez, who didn't see that coming. . Now it'll be interesting to see how she interacts later once she gets home in a few hours. My plans for tonight will include, bookstore (feel free to toss out suggestions), maybe cloth shopping, and hopefully a movie with my guy friend from earlier today, come home sleep and go to the run early tomorrow am.