I met with a 2nd realtor this morning and need to follow up with him at 3:00 this afternoon to review options.

Dang, prior to me finding those letters 3 years ago, i always made plenty of income for all the bills and was pre-paying down the principal with extra payments on my mortgage and had a decent college fund established adding more each month for our son since he was born.

I find it so hard to believe how emotionally crippled and paralyzed i became due to my reactions yo my wife pulling away from the marriage.

At least i am taking action steps now.

I still don't get her texts from last night. I guess i am not supposed to.


Ed
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Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012