Yes, welcome to our world. I totally understand. My H has done the same thing and I think about trying to shake him and make him see all the bridges he's burning etc. but it would just push him further away. You just have to always try and keep in mind what your goal is. If it's to get your W back or have a shot at reconciliation, then don't do what's going to push her further away. If I keep this in mind, it's easier not to "throw the good china" so to speak.
