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Re: How do I deal with this text message SunnyBurst #2286447 10/05/12 04:57 PM
Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 1,696 Southwest US R reachingHigher Member
reachingHigher Member R Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 1,696 Southwest US	I'm six months into physical separation and H is ready to file for D. But looking back, I honestly think it didn't have to do with the separation at all. He just had in in his mind he wanted to be "out of it". I feel like you should treat someone the way you want to be treated. And if it was me, I would have wanted him to let me go, if I asked, pressured, pleaded, as he did. I don't think there is any magic formula. People just change according to their circumstances and reactions to them. I would say physical separation gave me some privacy to grieve. I know in other situations it has helped save the R. Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway

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How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/20/12 03:53 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/20/12 03:55 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AnotherStander	09/20/12 07:59 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	tonibertha	09/20/12 08:27 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/26/12 07:13 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	09/20/12 08:31 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	09/20/12 08:41 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/20/12 10:09 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	BeingMe	09/20/12 11:06 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	DaddyLongShanks	09/20/12 11:26 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	09/21/12 01:21 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/24/12 07:57 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/24/12 08:38 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/24/12 09:24 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/24/12 10:15 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/26/12 07:20 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/26/12 07:32 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	09/26/12 07:55 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/26/12 08:32 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	09/27/12 01:38 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/27/12 03:24 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/27/12 05:07 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	09/27/12 05:14 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/27/12 05:46 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	MissAgnes	09/29/12 01:16 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/29/12 04:03 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	job	09/29/12 04:13 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/29/12 08:45 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	job	09/29/12 08:58 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/01/12 03:10 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	reachingHigher	10/01/12 03:25 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/01/12 03:52 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/01/12 04:52 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/01/12 04:06 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/01/12 04:56 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/01/12 05:53 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/01/12 06:47 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/02/12 02:18 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/02/12 02:29 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/02/12 03:37 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/02/12 04:04 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/02/12 04:06 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/02/12 04:12 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	10/02/12 09:56 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	hrm134	10/02/12 11:02 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/03/12 07:20 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/03/12 07:22 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/03/12 07:22 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	10/03/12 08:41 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	10/03/12 08:41 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/03/12 09:13 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	10/03/12 10:22 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	25yearsmlc	10/04/12 12:55 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/04/12 02:33 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/04/12 03:55 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/04/12 05:00 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	10/04/12 09:25 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/05/12 03:48 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	reachingHigher	10/05/12 04:57 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/05/12 05:45 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/05/12 07:26 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	MrBond	10/05/12 07:35 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Takevowsserious	10/05/12 11:29 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/06/12 03:44 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	25yearsmlc	10/06/12 06:30 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/07/12 03:07 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/07/12 04:13 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	10/07/12 05:52 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 03:43 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	MissAgnes	10/07/12 11:10 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 12:01 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Takevowsserious	10/08/12 01:07 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 03:46 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 04:01 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	job	10/08/12 04:10 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 04:24 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/08/12 04:52 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	10/08/12 06:02 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 06:07 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	25yearsmlc	11/09/12 07:20 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	11/09/12 10:09 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 06:42 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/08/12 08:21 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	hrm134	10/08/12 10:12 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/09/12 01:59 AM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/09/12 04:36 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/09/12 04:33 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/09/12 04:53 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/09/12 05:19 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/09/12 10:14 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/10/12 03:01 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/10/12 03:28 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/10/12 03:31 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/10/12 04:09 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/10/12 03:30 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/10/12 04:05 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	TSquared2	10/10/12 04:24 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	10/10/12 04:37 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 05:32 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	10/12/12 10:58 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ForeverYoung	10/01/12 06:58 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	WenikiTiki	10/01/12 07:45 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	hrm134	10/01/12 09:09 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	ericmsant2	10/01/12 09:07 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/27/12 05:22 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/27/12 05:47 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	09/27/12 05:49 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/27/12 05:53 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/27/12 06:25 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Jack_Three_Beans	09/27/12 09:14 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	AJM	09/28/12 04:16 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	reachingHigher	09/28/12 04:43 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/28/12 06:12 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	Cadet	09/26/12 07:52 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	SunnyBurst	09/26/12 08:27 PM
Re: How do I deal with this text message	DaddyLongShanks	09/20/12 08:41 PM

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