If I had a dime for every time I said "I screwed up" we wouldn't be in this financial mess! Just kidding. Its very difficult to navigate correctly and find that balance. I'm continuing to try.
LOL...hang in there.
I have found it's better to just listen to my W's complaints and validate. Start with that....explain things you feel and think only if prompted to do so, and even then, tread carefully.
