oh. that's sad to hear Ive been trying to look at it from a point of view of that people break up, see other people and then get back together all the time. Especially people with history as we have. Whether its PA or EA doesnt matter, I still have to focus on me and "forget" about what he is doing. Im still on the fence about asking him to leave but I am still leaning towards asking him to. All I can do at this point is make myself a better person which everyone on here has been saying. I found some information this morning on setting goals which I am going to have a read of.