About to separate....

[dorightman]

Thanks for the support Regretful and Bond, I hear you loud and clear. My other concern is that by not moving out, I'am not really giving her the space she might need to miss me. If we live in the same house and see each other everyday, even though we sleep in separate bedrooms, and only talk about the R for an hour a week in therapy, she still sees me everyday and we still act as if everything's cool in front of the kids. It also creates tension between us. I guess what I'm trying to say is I wonder if a TRUE SEPARATION , separate houses, would help more then what we are doing now?