My H is a Nice Guy, but he hasn't had the realizations you have. When he's being nice, it's great but when he's P/A and conflict avoidant, it's awful and as Rick said, a relationship buster.

Learn from that and grow.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss