Thank you unbidden:-) I do feel like over the last few days I am finally understanding my own issues. Sad thing is that when I think back I have always been like this and did not realize what an issue it was. I am a nice guy and looked at that as a good thing. now i know better. I would give of myself, hoping to have my needs meet. "Expectations" anyway I finally get it and feels like I have control of myself back.

Okay so W asked to go out tonight and I went down to pick her up. She immediately took my hand and leaned in. I gave her a light kiss and she looked at me smiled and said "really, that's it". We went to dinner, back to her place where she took me to her bedroom and then later we started watching a movie. About half way through I told her I needed to go as it was getting late. It was a great night and I will take it for what it was. Two people enjoying each others company.


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13