You mentioned this in the old thread "I don't know what you mean by overdoing it, vis a vis the kids."
You're right I shouldn't worry about her annoyance. I'll keep taking care of my kids. I don't know why, maybe she's a little jealous? S3 is really attached to me, he says he will only sleep with me, daddy has big muscles (even though I don't lol), daddy is strong, daddy this daddy that. But W shows love to him, and I encourage him to go to W. It's not like I tell him not too.
Anyways, I'll keep what I'm doing because I'm not doing anything wrong. It feels really good that he looks up to me.
What do you mean by this? "...you MIGHT keep the NC rule for OM and GAL as if your w is a roomate and make plans for going OUT"
Yes NC rule for OM for sure. But the going out part--Is this going out like on a date? I thought about this but really nothing like an A, but maybe just going with a female friend? Don't throw stones at me, I'm just thinking of an idea, I'd be lying if I say this didn't cross my mind. I mean what's wrong with two adults having dinner if it is set from the beginning that this is just a friendly dinner and nothing more. I don't know I'm rambling.
I'll think about this more tomorrow.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
