The ex

He is still unemployed and lives in another room of this house. This house belongs to my ex-FIL, and my son also lives here as well.

The ex and I get along but it is like living with a stranger...we do not eat together, sit together or watch tv together....nothing at all and I have no feelings at all toward him.

Ex still thinks he has done no wrong, thinks nothing has affected the kids at all.

What do the kids think? Son loves his dad...D2 does not see eye to eye with him and D3 says she could care less if she ever sees or speaks to him ever again.

Ex does not call her and he rarely talks to D2.

He has not seen OW since January!!

Funny, I asked him just yesterday why OW does not come by and pick him up to go out and he said she is unemployed and has no money. I said to him, who needs money to see each other...then he got ticked off at me for asking.

He knows about my guy friend. Just knows he exists but nothing more.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19