It will take time to build the trust. The wounds are still raw. I haven't been able to jump off the trust cliff at this point because I haven't gotten past if he's lying about something small, what else is he lying about? I've taken a break from the trust book and the co-dependency book for a little bit while I get siutated in AlAnon.
I think you need to care. If you don't he probably won't build up the trust as easily.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
