Quote: when I read your thought process, which contantly analyzes every detail--it reminds of me what drove a wedge between my W and me. I simply couldn't take it any more. She would see things that weren't there and it drove me nuts. Eventually, I just tuned her out to the point where she allowed someone else to tune in
If it is any comfort, I also have the same problem! I OVER analyze EVERYTHING! And it drove a wedge between my H and I also! So I think you and now I see I, also need to work on this. ASk yourself; what little things could my H do or say to make me feel more secure? write them down and approach him with it. Tell him it would help you greatly if he would help you feel more secure if he...
I like these posts and it brought to mind what I did wrong in the R and what I need to work on!
