New development: W called me and said the plans have changed again... Now, her friend will be coming tomorrow too... At around 8 pm, just about an hour after I normally get home from work.
W could sense I was perturbed by this and asked of that was okay. I responded that I'd prefer if we got some time to talk alone, and she said that her friend will stay upstairs while we talk... Not ideal at all.
I got off the phone, as I was upset and didn't want to let my emotions come out... Then texted that I would appreciate it if she could ask her friend to come down Saturday morning instead...
No response yet...
I go back to just making your statement and being done with it if her friend is there at your house. Also, I check in, make that statement, and then tell her that you have plans for the night and to please lock up. Then go out. I know others will tell you not to leave her there alone, and I agree if you don't trust that she will only take what has been agreed upon.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce