Originally Posted By: AlkalineThoughts
New development: W called me and said the plans have changed again... Now, her friend will be coming tomorrow too... At around 8 pm, just about an hour after I normally get home from work.

W could sense I was perturbed by this and asked of that was okay. I responded that I'd prefer if we got some time to talk alone, and she said that her friend will stay upstairs while we talk... Not ideal at all.

I got off the phone, as I was upset and didn't want to let my emotions come out... Then texted that I would appreciate it if she could ask her friend to come down Saturday morning instead...

No response yet...


I go back to just making your statement and being done with it if her friend is there at your house. Also, I check in, make that statement, and then tell her that you have plans for the night and to please lock up. Then go out. I know others will tell you not to leave her there alone, and I agree if you don't trust that she will only take what has been agreed upon.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce