Other FWWs have reported how startled they were if their BHs changed decor, esp MASTER BEDROOM decor. Something masculine, something ALK.
Oh, and something masculine somewhere else in the home, prominently displayed. Set of drums where the formal LR couch used to be. Tropical fish tank where a dining room hutch might have been. That sort of thing.
VERY powerful optics that say "I'm doing just fine, and I've BEGUN the process of moving on.