The only reason I said to keep them up was because you will obsess over them all evening. When you should be working out or something so you can sleep tonight.
Taking them down with nothing to replace is silly.
If it is a picture on an end table. Then yea remove it.
If its just 2 or 3 pictures on a wall in a hallway then no big deal....
See this is why I say what changed....
You are making mountains out of ....
Your message should be.
Get your stuff outta here in a calm , polite and respectful way.
Toss in a dash of Workout , fluff conversations about nothing....
You know when you see her she is going to look good..... or tired....
It is always the way...
So right then you drop in a thought of this woman is cheating on me and will make decisions that affect my well-being without my input or consent.
Then say.
"Hi."
After that get to work and get her stuff moved out.
Do not be all super smiley man either.... That is just creepy looking.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
