Journalling
Going to try and write it another way.
I like where I am right now.
Like Busting wrote:
- It would be an ADDITION to our inner happiness if the sitch worked in favor of R (if thats what we want), but it should not diminish our inner happiness if its not there. -

I am totally into me and I don't want this to change.
To maximise the chances of remaining in my bliss:
I will -
stay centred on me
not leave gaps in my w/e for "dates with H"
not think texts mean anything
have no expectations
not talk about R/D
accept him as he is
be patient with my self and situation
act as if H is a new man in my life that I will choose to keep or drop at some point
lean back and not overfunction
let him lead
sit on the blanket (sometimes I pretend it's a magic carpet :-))


180s
Respond don't react
Don't get insecure if I don't hear from him
No pressure/demands
No driving (i think backleading is ok tho)
Don't "manage/fix" his life or him

Anything else I need for my plan?

I just want to keep this PMA and see what happens.