AnotherStander what do you mean that if its a PA that changes things? I don't know for sure and there's nothing to snoop for but he's "grooming" a lot more than what he used to and a short that I wasjed for himhad cat hair on the inside of it. If he was just working at someones house who had a pet how would it get on the inside of the shirt. And yes I still would reconcile if he comes back. He has told me 2 weeks ago he is "in a relationship" but would not say it was physical. We have not had sex since he "dropped the bomb" august 22. Thanks Williams I will look up your thread. My therapist said he is cake eating because he's getting emotional and possibly sexual needs through her and then everything else through me.
Why is it better for him to move out if its PA? I just don't see any other way to improve myself while catering to his needs as well. I want to, of course but want to fully not just part time.
